I am really sorry to hear about that Sean, its pretty sad how some can say that "you can afford it" it just stereotypes us BMW drivers all the time. No matter what for a manager to say that is not only rued but also shows he probably a lousy manager for his own business. I would see who his boss is and report it. But anyways, I would say first to find out who did it and everything. I live in San Jose, CA and there are stuff like this all the time I got typical a door ding the size of a quarter on my left fender last week from where I park my car in a garage complex couldn't do anything about it and the security was the same way "you can afford popping it out" ended up just getting it popped out for about 90 bucks from a local Dent Pro place since there was no paint damage but still its effed up that people have no courtesy for hit and runs... or even leave a note. I wish ya the best of luck dude and lets hope it turns out well.