The problem is that when you have a big car, you get used to that big size and the way it feels and drives. If you've been driving a big car for a long time and then suddenly switch to something smaller, it will feel much smaller than it actually is. For example, my dad is like 5'6" and my mom is about 5'3" or so and both of them will never drive anything smaller than their S500's....weird shit.
The 130i's size will be fine for anyone. If you don't fit in a 130, the car isn't too small, you're just too full of yourself.
Eric and I are cool because we both know that smaller = better.